Of course you want to respect those grieving when you attend a funeral service. But, we understand that it's sometimes confusing to figure out what this actually means. What do you say? What do you wear? Do you give the mourner a gift? How can you help them?

We want you to feel comfortable and relaxed when you're at our cemetery. Here's how you can feel at ease and help us respect these sacred grounds.

DO:

• Watch over children to ensure their safety. Keep a close eye on them and keep them from running, yelling, and playing or climbing on graves and monuments. Teach them to act in a respectful and considerate manner.
• Be Respectful of Services and Funeral-Goers if a burial is occurring, take care not to get in the way of processions. Never take photos of strangers at a funeral or gravesite. Respect their privacy and give them their space.
• Follow our cemetery guidelines. Most cemeteries have signs posted listing rules specific to the property. Follow the rules and observe any floral regulations. Administrative buildings usually have copies of any rules and regulations. Respect cemetery visiting hours.
• Leash Your Pets. Some cemeteries allow pets on their grounds. Before you bring your pet along, check to make sure this is allowed and keep them on a leash at all times. Be sure to clean up after your pet just like you would in any public space.

DONT'S:

• Take photos of other visitors or funerals.
• Leave trash behind. Litter creates extra work for the caretakers and is disrespectful to both visitors and those who are buried. Use designated receptacles or hang onto your trash and take it with you when you leave.
• Respect the Graves. Do not step on any memorial markers. This is not only disrespectful but may cause damage to the marker. Never remove anything from a gravestone, such as flowers, coins, or tributes that have been left by family.
  
• Disturb flowers or plants on the grounds, trees, shrubs or any planted or natural areas.